While at Redwood apartments, my partner and I both experienced a forceful sexual reconnection with our previous ex’s. Mine showed up at the apartment and came in and flashed her breast and then grabbed my wrist and put my hand on her breast. When she saw the look on my face, she let my wrist go. I told my partner that this happened. This is ALL that happened.
My partner was showering with a butcher knife, and I didn’t put two and two together. I came home from work, and she was in the shower. The butcher knife was on the bathroom sink, with the door closed. It didn’t hit me that something similar could have happened to her, and for a man it would be so much worse.
To this day she will not talk about what happened exactly. Even with evidence, she isn’t willing to discuss it. Nobody should have the power to silence someone from their partner.